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French Kissing Tips - how to French Kiss - French Kissing advice
French kisses are kisses in
which you use your
tongues.
French Kissing takes practice - it`s fun
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Kissing Tips and Kissing
Advice Tips The Art of Oral Sex People have been using their mouths to stimulate each other sexually
for about as long as there have been people. How about kissing each other?
Men have been kissing women on their necks, ears, breasts, backs, thighs,
and any where else they can think of that'll arouse them sexually ever
since they found out it works. It didn't take long for some enterprising
man to find out that kissing a woman's vulva worked, did it ever. The
Latin word cunnilingus was coined to describe licking the vulva. Men were not alone in searching for ways to arouse the opposite sex.
Some equally enterprising woman found out that men liked for her to suck
their penis, it worked just as well. The Latin word fellatio was coined to
describe sucking the penis. Let's define and use the more common words to describe men and women's
genitalia and the various sexual acts. Pinus, cock; vulva, pussy; vagina,
cunt; Coitus, fuck; cunnilingus, eating pussy; fellatio, sucking cock,
blowjob; performing cunnilingus or fellatio, giving head; ejaculate, cum
or shoot his load; orgasm, cum or climax; pubic hair, women muff or bush,
men bush. Many men and women, today probably most, use some form of oral massage
or kissing of the sex organs as a normal part of foreplay to warm up their
partners prior to fucking. They probably don't think of that as "giving
head," and I would agree that it's not. It's simply a part of the foreplay
used to prepare each other for fucking and hopefully achieving a sexual
climax. Giving head, on the other hand, is used by one to bring the other to
climax by use of, primarily, the mouth and tongue. For those couples who
develop the required skills and self restraint, both can cum together
using the 69 position. For me, although the sensations of a man's cock
thrusting in my cunt are great and I do love a good fuck, cuming together
during 69 is more emotionally satisfying than cuming together by fucking.
You have to develop an understanding of the intimate feelings and
emotions that occur while you're performing oral sex and during a climax,
and how to respond to those feelings. Giving head is much more intimate
than fucking and, if approached with the right attitude, can be more
emotionally satisfying. Both the man and woman need to become familiar
with what the other's emotional needs are, not just what it takes to make
each other cum. Only in the movies does a man grab a woman and say, take your clothes
off, I want to fuck, or vise-versa. You have to pick a time and place
other than the kitchen where the baby has just thrown a bowl of food all
over your wife, although it might be a welcome distraction right abought
then. Giving head requires at least as much emotional preparation as
fucking. For the subject to even come up, one partner has to have built up
the desire. That partner then has to build up the desire in the other
partner. Getting the other to let you bring them to orgasm is generally the
easiest. If you just want to eat her pussy or she just wants to suck your
cock, then all that's required is a willingness to submit, and this is
important, with the expectation of achieving orgasm. Getting the other to
bring you to orgasm requires the art of gentle persuasion. If you just
want her to suck your cock or she just wants' you to eat her pussy, a
slightly different situation exists. A woman can probably convince a man
to eat her pussy without much effort. All that's generally required is for
him to be in a reasonably good mood. If he just wants her to suck his
cock, and she wasn't already thinking about sex, then he's going to have
to get her in the proper mood first. You'll find out that no matter who starts, the other will probably end
up getting head also, either that or you'll end up fucking. Given this
inevitable result, it's nice if both of you can build each other up first.
Once you're both ready, he should give her head first, or you should use
69. A man comes down from his climax too quickly, and takes too long to
build back up sufficiently to move right into doing a good job of eating
pussy, unless he had that on his mind from the beginning. It's fairly easy for a man to learn to do a good job of eating a
woman's pussy. If he's sensitive, gentle and pays attention to what's in
this book, she'll love it. About the only problem the uninitiated man has is over the perceived
bad smell and taste of a woman's secretions. Many men, and women, think
that the tastes and odors associated with a woman's pussy are offensive.
This isn't so, the natural fragrance and taste of the fresh secretions
from a clean healthy woman are usually beautiful and erotic to a man. This
question needs to be settled at the very beginning. A couple should take
turns tasting and smelling her pussy's natural fluids when she's fresh and
clean. Once a man tries it, the taste and smell of a woman's sex will
excite him and he'll look forward to it. When a man fingers a woman and
then smells, licks, sucks the juice off his finger and sighs as if in
heaven, she'll forget this problem and he can dive right in. It's more difficult for a woman to become a good cock-sucker, but the
rewards can be worth the effort. There are three basic problems that
confront a woman, the first two are, how much of his cock should she take
into her mouth, and what does she do with his cum. The answers to the
first two are, all of it, and swallow it. The third problem is, how does
she get all of that cock in her mouth. The answer to the third is in the
following lessons. As you'll see later, the shaft of a man's cock isn't overly sensitive
to touch on any particular spot, but it does respond to pressure, and
there are a lot of nerve endings when you include all of it. Don't forget
that much of the pleasure we derive from sex is in the mind, it's
psychological, emotional. When a man feels a woman's warm soft mouth and
tongue giving his cock a workout, feels her trying to suck his balls out
through it, sees her look up at him as her lips slide down over it until
her face is buried in his bush, the overall feeling is hard to describe.
When you take all of this into account, she should take all of his cock
into her mouth and throat at appropriate times while she's giving head.
It's not a big deal with most men if a women doesn't want to swallow
his cum, he just doesn't want her to take his cock out of her mouth until
he's finished cuming. When he's fucking you, you feel that you're drawing
him into yourself when you cum, part of his sexual makeup is a mirror
image of yours, he feels that he's being drawn into you when he cums. He
needs for you to keep his cock in your mouth, continuing to increase the
intensity of your fellatio, until he cums and his climax lets down. It's a
real letdown for him if you take his cock out of your warm soft mouth just
as he's reaching the climax that you've both worked so hard for and jack
him off into a wet towel. I said that the rewards can be worth the effort. Lying there with a
man's throbbing cock buried deep in your throat and your face buried in
his bush can feel almost as good as having it in your cunt, and a lot more
intimate. Feeling a man cum in her mouth while she carries him through the
end of his orgasm and then swallowing it after he's finished becomes a
sensual thing for a woman, part of her natural desire to participate in
his orgasm to the fullest extent, drawing his love juices into her as he
climaxes. You'll find out that taking his cum into your mouth and
swallowing it can be an intensely intimate act for both, it can be a
significant symbolic gesture of love. Good sex isn't just the pleasure of reaching a climax, it's when you
share each other's climax, it's when a woman's efforts to bring her man to
climax excite her to the point where she could almost cum, sometimes his
climax drives her over the top. It's the same for the man. When a man is
passionately eating out a woman's pussy, he's got a hard-on that won't
quit. He wants to bury his face in her muff and thrust his tongue into her
cunt, join with her body. It's not unusual for a man to get so worked up
emotionally while he's eating a woman's pussy that he cums while he's
doing it, and none of his sex organs are involved except his mind. Sex should not be all oral. When the opportunity presents itself, like
when you're passionately eating her out, she's starting on her second
orgasm and is really hot, you've got a hard-on that just won't quit and
she's lying at the edge of the bed with you between her legs. You look
down and see that if you just got up on your knees your cock would find
itself in her cunt, go ahead and shove it in there and give each other a
good fuck. Some women say that they feel lonesome when they're receiving
head, they want to be held and kissed. This is why moving from eating her
pussy smoothly into fucking her can be very satisfying, it's also a good
reason for 69. Share your
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